LJMap.com < Scott
Bristol
Life Journey Map® author.
About Scott Bristol
Creating educational
settings in which all participants, including myself, can approach learning and change
with a sense of curiosity and support, is my essential mission. I especially enjoy
helping others apply their learning's to making their work lives and personal lives
meaningful. I call myself an educator.
A number a years ago I left a corporate job as Director of
Training and Organizational Development. Part of my reason for leaving was accepting my
limited ability to create learning settings where I could be my most meaningful self.
After reflecting on this experience I came to the conclusion that the dialogues I
participate in define me. It is through 'languaging' (verbal, written, and non-verbal) with
others that I manifest the values that give me meaning and define me. In retrospect, what
I felt was a disappointment at my own inability to influence meaningful dialogue-
dialogue that was rich in content and process and able to address our team's pressing
problems.
Having worked professionally as a
therapist, experiential educator, group process consultant and having worked on a number
of creative and productive teams, I'm well aware of specific skills necessary for rich
dialogue, creative problem solving, and continuous learning.
What I have
learned through my work in values is a more realistic way to align with
and appreciate an individual's, team's, or culture's present potential for
change... vs. my need for them to change.
If I extrapolate on
my learnings, then my biography is a history of the conversations that have
influenced me. Here
are some of the people and dialogues, past and present, that define me:
- My wife Virginia, who reminds me to speak from the heart even when it's most
difficult.
- Isadore From, a Gestalt Therapist, who I studied with and who taught me how to be
"present". And who I still talk to, with amusement and intellectual rigor, even
though he's dead.
- Learning how teams work and how I can use authentic disclosure to
facilitate problem solving is a 30 year conversation I been having with my
professional colleagues at NTL
Institute. NTL is a organization I'm proud to be a member of because of our
commitment to human rights- freedom, justice, and equality.
- Weaving emotional literacy, values, and diversity into the dialogue of
Authentic Influence with leaders,
managers and consultants.
- A growing involvement and dialogue since 2001 with my teaching
colleagues in Interpersonal Dynamics at
Stanford
Graduate School of Business.
- 'First Communion' songs and voices of hope and prayer: St. Matthew's
Anglican Church in Soweto, South Africa;
August, 1987.
- Rinpoche Tara who spoke in Tibetan, but who through an interpreter taught me about
compassion and Mahayana Buddhism.
- Listening to, my mother, Barbara's excitement, compassion and dedication
to teaching students to read. She went back to teaching school in 1998, at
age 71... and tutoring at 80.
- My father, Dale introduced me to meditation. As a young boy and teenager fishing and
hunting with my father, saying little while sitting, surrounded by the wonder of
outdoor silence, was a language of its own.
- Laughing at the outrageous antics of 'Calvin and Hobbes' while reading
years ago to my daughter's- Mirar and Nigel; and now to my granddaughters- Amber, Sierra, and
Meghan.
- Learning to speak and live with my son Dalyn in his quest for a
future after 6 bouts of hospitalization for mood and thought disorder.
- My professional
education and experience.
- My passion for books, good science, and different fields of
study and learning to test and practice what I learn on myself and in my
intimate and work relationships.
Current Projects and Interests
- LJMap.com is a growing project that challenges me at many levels.
- Making the
Life Journey Map® available
in more languages.
- Ball room dancing... still learning to be a good lead and get up to
courage to dance in public.
- Trail biking on paths that overlook the Pacific Ocean, canoeing, fishing, swimming, and staying healthy.
Contact Information
Scott Bristol, Ed.D.
Phone: 831-457-3117
Email: scott@LJMap.com